What is “The Path”?

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Sometimes on this blog, I refer to “The Path”.

More literal minded readers may have wondered which path I am talking about. But The Path is a concept rather than a physical thing. Let me explain.

The Path is the route that we take through life. If we get things right, The Path will take us out of the Prison Camp towards the treeline of freedom and the rail station of happiness.

The Path also takes us over time from the bottom to the top of Maslow’s pyramid.


The Path helps explain progress; linking people and times that are so different they seem worlds apart.

The Path is what separates (and can bridge between) a cable TV watching, doughnut munching, debt-fuelled iphone addict trapped in The Prison Camp at one end and a Zen Warrior like Bear Grylls or Mr Money Mustache at the other end.

Or what separates the young Luke Skywalker from an experienced Jedi.  Or a kid from Omaha from Warren Buffet.

The Path is a way of thinking where we take responsibility for our own direction through life.  Following The Path is not always easy.  There will often be obstacles blocking the way. What matters is our response to those obstacles.

Following The Path requires focussing on what we can control and improve (ourselves and our direction) and worrying less about what we can’t (the stuff happening elsewhere, away from our Path).

Sometimes the way ahead on The Path is not obvious.  We may get distracted. But as long as we have a vision for where we are trying to get to, we can keep moving forward in roughly the right direction and we can make adjustments to our direction as we go.

The Path doesn’t just lead to getting rich, it works for all types of self-development including health and fitness, relationships and other Jedi skills.  As you move along The Path, benefits in one area of your life tend to lead to spin-off benefits in the others.

There is not one single Path…just as there is no one single religion with a monopoly on the truth.  There are many routes to financial independence and different ways of living once you get there.  The good news is that, unlike getting into heaven, you can prove that its possible to achieve financial independence (see the FI-o-meter).

I think about financial independence as a problem to be solved in 4 dimensions.  The four dimensions are:

  1. Maximising income
  2. Minimising spending
  3. Investing the surplus
  4. Realising how much is enough

Different people are better at the different dimensions. To use a football metaphor, some people are natural defenders:  they are wired for frugality and caution.  Other people are natural attackers:  they are wired to influence and sell so they can earn a lot.  The reason that achieving financial independence is tough is that you have to combine and balance very different skills and opposing character traits.

I initially majored on elements 1 and 3 in my journey towards financial independence. When I left university I took the path of finding the best paying job that I could land and hold down.

The Escape Artist did not end up in finance by chance (nor because I was good at maths). No, the young Escape Artist was a bit like the bank robber who, when asked why they robbed banks, answered: because that’s where the money is.  For me, working in finance had the helpful side effect of forcing me out of my comfort zone and to get numerate.

But we humans take many years to “round out” and develop different skills and different aspects of our personality. It’s always a long road.  A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.  No sportsman is going to be able to take up a sport one day and then rock up to the Olympics and win a gold medal later that month.  There is always a long path between starting out with baby steps and eventual success.

We learn and grow over time as we walk The Path.  I started to earn good money in my 20’s but I only got good at reducing spending in my 30’s.  And I only stumbled across how to figure out how much is enough in my early 40s.  Imagine my surprise when I realised I was already financially independent.

The Path is rarely straight, open and clear like the desert highway into Las Vegas.  Its more like driving down a twisty turny country lane in the dark where you don’t know what’s round the next corner. If you’re sensible you steer the car based on what you see in front of you now rather than trying to guess which way the road might turn ahead. The important thing is to keep going and take each bend as it comes.

The Path metaphor also allows for the possibility that we sometimes get a bit lost along the way. That’s normal.  You can always ask someone else who is on The Path for help with directions.  It’s much easier when like-minded people travel together and help each other along the Path.

Perfectionism can be a trap that distracts us from The Path.  People often try to plan and control everything. But, when travelling, waiting to find a perfect route doesn’t make sense. So when I cycled France earlier this year, I didn’t spend ages reading maps looking for a perfect route.  Instead I just tried to keep my compass pointing north as much as possible via a series of small choices about which road to take. If I’d waited to find the perfect route, I’d still be in France looking at a map right now.

Perfectionism can also be an unconscious excuse for inaction or for sliding back into bad habits. For example, imagine someone giving up alcohol (an achievable goal that would be hard for me). Let’s assume they fall off the wagon one night (not hard for me to imagine).  Our natural tendency might be to say…arrggh, I failed!…so I might as well have another drink to make myself feel better…after all, I may as well be hanged for a sheep as a lamb.

By thinking of The Path, its possible to visualise the lapse for what it is: not failure, just an imperfection in the route that requires a course correction. OK, we stepped off The Path and went the wrong way for a bit but we can look at the compass and then head back in the right direction.

Another example of the problem with perfectionism is where people want to start investing but will only start after they’ve read and understood everything on the subject.

This is a bit like saying you will only study GCSE physics after you have had your unifying theory of quantum mechanics, black holes and dark matter (in which you show where Einstein, Newton, Hawking et al have got it wrong) published in Nature and collected your second Nobel Prize.

The Laws of Learning tell us that we have to learn actively and take action before we can really know a subject.  You only really understand compounding after you have started investing.  You have to experience the boredom at first and then (after 6 or 7 years) feel the tingle of excitement as you see the J curve start to head upwards and realise oh my god this is actually working!

If you are looking to get started in investing, trying to read and understand everything before you start is not just impractical, it may even be an avoidance mechanism or a means of self-sabotage.

Why would anyone self-sabotage? Maybe because we can’t fail if we never try something?  People are often scared of the responsibility for failure.  This helps explain why intelligent people pay thousands of pounds a year to financial advisers and fund managers.  The performance may be disappointing (and the fees outrageous) but at least the client can blame someone else.

But when it comes to financial independence, there is no failure. We should be more worried about failing to try than trying and failing.

Other avoidance mechanisms include sitting on cash waiting for the perfect opportunity to put your cash to work.  The Escape Artist is all in favour of buying things when they are cheap.  But the reality is that novice investors who are scared to invest in normal times are not going to be brave enough to invest in scary bear markets.

So if you want to get started in investing, by all means read a book. Just don’t read 10 books before taking action.   Better to start by opening a practice account and then, as soon as you are comfortable with the process of virtual investing, buying your first share or Vanguard ETF with real money. Get started on The Path and you can then adjust as you go along.

It’s great to reach out and get help along the Path. That’s why every top athlete has a coach.  I give financial coaching and I’ve seen how powerful it can be. But just as each athlete has to run their own race, we all have to walk our own version of The Path.

The hard part is finding The Path in the first place and then sticking with it.  But if you can do that, it can take you further than you ever thought possible.

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  1. SuffolkShandy · · Reply

    Great post as usual, certainly continuing to inspire us to put one foot in front of the other. 🙂

  2. Great post. It reminded me of a minor mistake I’ve made…

    I’ve been saving and investing in index funds for over 15 years, and I have presumably experienced my fair share of compounding. But because of poor record keeping, I only really have decent records showing the variation in my net assets for the last 2 years. And why does a slightly obsessive chap like me only have 2 years of decent records? Because I fell into the perfectionist trap and tried to track everything perfectly (was it £10.76 or £11.84 for that round last night? Aaargh, I don’t know) and so I abandoned my increasingly incomplete personal accounts every few years. Only as I learned to accept some minor errors have I been able to keep records accurately enough to be useful. (I write down approximate figures for cash spend, then if I’m £100 short compared to my accounts at the end of the year, I shove down a £100 ‘miscellaneous’ expense to square the accounts. And this superficially half-arsed, lazy, imperfect way works so well I tend to not have to adjust by more than £20-30 a year anyway.)

    I do wish I had that J curve plot all the same. Just not enough to rake through my old paperwork to extract all the figures… 🙂

    1. If you use something like MoneyDance then it will pay off to dig out the old paperwork to enter the initial cost of your investments. If you don’t have those then at least enter the earliest valuation you can find. These tools usually have the means to drag in historical price data so you can see how things have changed over time. It’s also a good way of tracking your Net Worth by entering all banking and savings accounts, although I don’t bother with tracking cash except as withdrawals from the ATM.

  3. Hi. You make good common sense points in this article …..that again illustrate though how it’s ironic that so-called common sense doesn’t seem so common when you look at it more closely.

    Sometimes you don’t get something because it’s so obvious it’s either hiding in plain sight or you think ”No way, the answer can’t just be that! …..it’s too easy” – I’m referring to the conundrum of why so many of my intelligent acquaintances invest/save like 5-year olds. [0.1% savings account &/or ISA]

    Now I think you’ve cracked it – perfectionism – I have a close relative who blew a fuse when she found out an old work pension scheme she recently reviewed had barely increased from what was put in. Seeing an opportunity to use her anger as a catalyst to nudge her to actually do something about it, I showed her what I’d recently done when I got self-educated to the point where I realised I was on a closet tracker. [& most of the profit from my years of sweat, blood & tears at Souless Inc were instead going to my Pension ‘provider’ company, Shyster, Crookes & Charletan Ltd. in various fees] But she dumbfounded me by still preferring to leave it be & carry on complaining from time to time…..

    That’s why these business strategies relying on apathy are so widespread & reliable, from low-interest bank accounts & teaser rates to automated annual increases on any given utility service.

    As for learning new things, my new strategy to overcome the fear of failure is childishly simple, that’s why it works well – I put in small amount, like £100 [if there’s no option to run a virtual account] & test how it all works for a while, then scale up if it seems the real deal. That way I don’t miss anything good & if I lose, so what, it’s only a little amount that I can put down to education/entertainment. The way I see it, attempting to invest in yourself is always forgivable, the old saying ”nothing ventured, nothing gained” is still so true. Oh & I’m not done with her yet, I’ll next nag her again at Xmas, [ 🙂 in a play on L’Oreal you might appreciate 🙂 ] cos she’s worth it.

    1. Yes I think its often a mixture of perfectionism and / or fear…all the best with educating your relatives!

  4. I am learning so much from this blog! I’ve just bought into my first ETF after having no idea how they worked and what they were. I’m trying out a small amount to see how it works for me and if all goes well i’ll pile in some more dosh. Feeling very motivated 🙂

    1. Thanks! Please pay it forward!

  5. “Imagine my surprise when I realised I was already financially independent.” Similar thing happened to me. I had a vague notion of retiring in my early 50s and knew roughly how my investments were going. I did some back-of-the-envelope calculations and reckoned if I downsized the house I could do it. But it was only when I worked out what I could live on that, when push came to shove at work, I realised I could stick two fingers up to them and retire gracefully.

  6. Is it the case for many readers of FI blogs that your #4 (Realising how much is enough) is the toughest hurdle? (It is for us…) We already have a figure in our heads (we’re opting for annual spend x 30), but we find ourselves second-guessing that ALL THE TIME!

    We think: What if we end up living until 100 (we’re in our late 40s) and the markets don’t cooperate with our plans (Trinity study notwithstanding)? What if, early in our retirement, we lose access to affordable health insurance? (Yes, we’re in the US.) Since we’re currently making more money than ever before, is it unwise to walk away from money which can buy us extra financial security? We have “golden handcuffs” of job security (and tenure), bonuses, sabbaticals, etc. Can we walk away from those when, all said, our jobs are not exactly torturing us?

    We suspect we’re suffering from the “one more year syndrome.”

    Curious to know how others actually made that final move. Whether some event (like a horrible boss or an impossible project) precipitated the move or some zen transcendence washes over people once they reach their target FI number…

    1. Thanks, I’d recommend worrying less about the markets etc and focus instead on thinking how you can get paid to do something you enjoy after FI…

  7. ‘The Path’ for me is a wavy one. A straight, known path is boring, like driving along a motorway!
    I too started out by working on 1 and 3. Although I was not looking at FI in any real capacity in my early years, I had a dream to be in a financially secure position. I wanted to be able to choose to work rather than have to work.

    In recent years my path changed to focus on 2 and then suddenly after some number crunching I realised that I had achieved 4.

    I quit the horrid job, took some time off knowing I could trial the FI freedom bit for a while. I have noticed that my net worth is actually climbing even though I am drawing on it! Result!

    I am now looking to jump back into a job for a while, continue my FI ways and increase my net worth with the knowledge that if the job becomes a bore, I can drop out and work harder at the side-hustles that I have created and are in their infancy.

    I have a long road trip planned in a few years time when my travel partner gains their freedom from The Man. Being able to stick it to The Man when you want to is just such a cathartic experience.

    1. I ‘m looking forward to hearing about those side hustles SB…

  8. The Path of the Four Dimensions! I like it!!!

  9. […] The path to more financial independence is simple, but not easy. It starts by harnessing your millionaire mojo and becoming truly happy spending less than you earn. It then involves using most of the money you’ve saved to get the magic of compounding working in your favour. […]

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